Sunday, May 30, 2010

What's in a NAME?

Before Campbell was born, we had a boy's name picked out that we LOVED. While we were thrilled to have a daughter, we both automatically knew we would put the boy's name on the back burner only until we had another little one.

Bennett Russell King

Bennett has been in my family for a long time. My dad's middle name is Bennett, my precious grandmother is Bennie Jean, and her dad was named Bennett. In addition, apparently there were a lot of cousins/brothers/uncles in my great-grandfather's generation that had Bennett as a first or middle name. We are so excited that not only do we love the name, but it has so much history. AND baby boy will grow up knowing he was named after my wonderful father.

Russell is, obviously, Russ's first name. While he was not interested in having a junior, I love the idea of naming our baby boy after the best man I know.

So there you have it. We had struggled some with another girl name and are excited we have been able to use the two names we love the most on both of our kids!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

The big reveal!

Monday was definitely a day I will never forget!

Monday morning we woke up and headed to drop Campbell off at my mom's house and get to our big ultrasound. Truthfully, I was somewhat of a hormonal mess. I struggled and prayed through the morning with fears about the health of the baby. SEVERAL times I tried to talk Russ into finding out the gender and surprising everyone with it that night. He was totally adamant that we would not!

Thankfully, everything looked great with baby King #2 at the ultrasound. The techs were delighted to be part of the fun of the surprise and did everything they could to shield our eyes from any "gender revealing" parts! We saw the doctor briefly and she looked over all the measurements from the ultrasound and said things look great. They paid especially close attention to the kidneys and renal arteries, in light of Campbell's illness, and said things look perfect at this point.

I had the envelope in my purse for the day, and surprisingly I wasn't at all tempted to open it. I'm not going to lie, it was torture to wait, but it felt a little sad to open it by myself and find out when I was alone. The last couple hours before the evening drrrraaaagggged by and I struggled to entertain myself.

We headed to my parent's house around 5:30. Waiting for everyone to get there felt like it took an eternity. As soon as everyone had arrived, we took group pictures with the boy predictors and the girl predictors. Obviously Team Blue far outweighed Team Pink!


My nephew, Gregory, made this sign-up sheet for everyone to sign.


Then it was time to open the envelope. Ready, set, go!


When Russ pulled out the card, this is what we saw...


And this is what shock looks like! I like that you can see Greg's arm celebrating in the picture. Gregory was all about evening the numbers.



Obviously one King is a better predictor than the rest. She said "brodder" all day and sported blue that night!


It was so fun to find out with our families and a few precious friends. I'd be lying if I said the shock of the baby being a boy didn't throw me off a little. I think the shock is wearing off at this point though. My dad keeps telling me I shouldn't be so surprised, that there are 50/50 odds!

We are so, SO excited to welcome Bennett Russell King to our family of 3!

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Boy or Girl???

Tomorrow is THE day. If you've ever been pregnant, you know that the "big ultrasound" day is monumental. Perhaps only second to the actual birthing day. (That is, unless you are like one of good friends who recently waited the whoooole nine months to be surprised at birth. I do not have that willpower.)


We aren't finding out at the ultrasound. Instead, we are having a fun reveal party with our families and a few close friends tomorrow night. I actually had the idea, shared it with Russ, then changed my mind and decided I just wanted to find out at the ultrasound, only to have Russ fall in love with the idea. Dang me. I do appreciate his motives though. He is excited for this baby to have something special that is all his or her own, as no doubt he or she will be on the receiving end of many hand-me-downs!

So tomorrow, after 10:00 am, one of us will be carrying around an envelope that holds the highly anticipated secret. Please don't call and tempt me to open it, as I am positive I will be experiencing my own torment of willpower tomorrow.

My next-door neighbor and precious friend, Missy, brought me these jars this afternoon. How cute are they??





So what will it be?

Boy?


Or Girl?


Saturday, May 22, 2010

6 Years Later


Today I've been married to my love for 6 years.

6 years sounds like an eternity, when some days I feel like we got married yesterday!

When I think back to what the past six years have held, I am amazed at the journeys we've walked together.

Two apartments, One house (and six months with my parents!)

The last semesters of Russ's undergrad.

Two and a half years of grad school for me.

Several big "I got the job!" days.

One move from Nacogdoches to Houston.

One BIG career change for Russ.

One beautiful baby girl.

Being a part of two great church families.

Another sweet baby (boy or girl? We will know soon!)

Tears, Joy, Fears, Arguments, Laughter

Did I mention the laughter??

Russ King, there is nobody I would rather walk through this life with.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Happy 2nd Birthday Campbell Rose!


My dear Campbell,

It's hard to believe that on this day you are turning two. Two years old! It sounds so grown up, so not a baby anymore. At two years old, you are the funniest, sweetest, most darling little girl I have ever known. Mommy and Daddy are constantly proud of your sweet nature and the love you show to other people. May God continue to cultivate that sweet heart of yours and the gifts He has determined to give you. As amazing as we already think you are, we are excited to watch you become the person He created you to be.

The past year has been filled with milestones, wonderful moments, and challenges. At 13 months you started walking (out of nowhere one day!) and we endured a UTI (that came with a 106 fever!). This was mommy's first indication that things weren't quite right with you.

(First Day as a walker!)

You spent much of the summer (months 14-16) sick. You seemed to catch every virus and were never able to shake stuff off. While we had some great times in the midst of that, we became increasingly more concerned about your health. You began to pick up more and more words, fell so in love with your Jo, and became a big fan of "num-num" (soy milk).


In October, at 17 months, we began the most difficult journey we have ever walked. As I have reflected on your past year lately, I have been overwhelmed with emotions about these things we faced. In the week before you were hospitalized, you became very very sick. I recently looked at this picture of you on my phone and the reality of how bad you were hit me pretty hard.


In the weeks we spent at the hospital, you were amazing. Your sweetness was evident, in spite of the difficult things you had to endure. I will never forget you being so sick, hooked up to a million wires, laying in your bed in the PICU and dancing while your Aunt Amy fed you bites of your first meal in a week. You amaze me little girl.


On October 28th we finally received some answers and on November 2nd we finally brought you home. I would be lying if I said those first few weeks home weren't hard. You were traumatized, scared of your bed, the highchair, and being left alone for a second. Your daddy and I felt scared at every rise in number of your blood pressure, that we would end up right back where we started. Over time you showed us how resilient you are. By Christmas we were marveling at how "normal" you had become, how much more active you were than before you got sick, and how your language (and hair!) were increasing more and more.



At 20 months (January) you had a language explosion. Seriously. I have never seen anything like it. You began to pick up words at an astonishing pace, form sentences, and astound us with the things you probably knew long before you could verbalize them. At 21 months we found out you would be a big sister! Although you tell me "big sister", I know you probably don't understand. You have been wanting to touch, look at, and kiss mommy's growing belly though.


In the past few months, you have become increasingly more like a big girl. You form sentences that amaze us, understand the world around you so much (lots of pretend play!), and look more like a kid than a baby. You are still the sweetest girl, although we have learned that you are somewhat of an introvert.


We are so proud of you little girl. Not many children go through what you have in their second year of life. You have shown so much joy in the midst of things that were remarkably hard and continue to grow into an amazing little person. We are blessed that you are ours.

Love,
Mommy and Daddy


Thursday, May 13, 2010

Mother's Day 2010

I got the BEST present for Mother's Day (although I loved the iPhone I got last year, it doesn't even come close to this!). For the past 6 months, Russ and I have been using said iPhone to record Campbell saying some of our favorite phrases of hers. He put some of the clips over music for me for Mother's Day. It is priceless.

The song behind that sweet voice is "Sweet Rose" by Matt Costa. When I was pregnant with our Rosie (Campbell Rose), Russ told me this was going to be their song. One of my favorite phrases from the song my two loves share is

"My sweet rose
As the two of us change
I want you to know that nothing stays the same
But you and I, we will remain
My rose, remember my rose"

I had to add a picture to the audio, because for the life of me I could not figure out how to upload just a video file. Oh well, seeing that cute face makes it all the better!

Enjoy. And thank you Russell King!